Is studying abroad for further education? Or is it a matter of necessity?
In today's society, studying abroad has always been an important choice for certain social classes, which means that such families far exceed the well-off and have entered the ranks of wealthy families. cnimmigrantexpo.com​
Some people say, 'Tsinghua and Peking University are preparatory classes for cultivating talents for the United States,' and 'international students from Tsinghua and Peking University can hold class meetings in American universities.'. Although this statement is somewhat exaggerated, it can be seen that it is quite common for students from China's two top universities - Tsinghua University and Peking University - to choose to study abroad.
Tsinghua University and Peking University are already top universities in China, and students who have the ability to enter Tsinghua University and Peking University in China will definitely have outstanding learning abilities. Studying abroad seems to be their proactive choice to pursue higher academic pursuits.
There is another group of people who seem to have no choice but to study abroad.
In order to promote the development of domestic universities and quickly integrate with international universities, relevant departments have successively proposed 211 universities, 985 universities, and Double First Class universities. It is obvious that these universities are all very strong in comprehensive strength in China, either key universities of various ministries or key universities of various provinces. These people didn't even get into these universities and went abroad to study under the arrangement of their families, which is really unavoidable and beyond their wishes.
There is a case around me where I was forced to study abroad due to personal reasons.
Speaking of my cousin, he is also a celebrity from Ten Mile Eight Village. I heard that my cousin is the same age as my father. When he was very young, he seemed to have graduated from high school and got married. He completed his university, master's degree, and doctoral degree with the support of his father-in-law. Later, my cousin went abroad again and heard that he went to the United States to do research work. Eventually, he settled in Beijing and worked at a research institute there.
My uncle left his hometown in the countryside very early. Even if he went back to his hometown, he stayed at his father-in-law's home for a longer time. It seems that he went back to his own home as a visiting relative.
My cousin has two children, the older one is a girl and the younger one is a boy. Today we are going to talk about his eldest daughter.
Although my uncle has rarely returned home since he was admitted to college, he still has my second uncle and other elders in his hometown. During holidays, he still goes back to his rural hometown to visit. cnimmigrantexpo.com​
When my uncle returns to his hometown, the people there will definitely ask questions, especially about the children. I don't know who it is, so I asked about my cousin's eldest daughter. At this point, my cousin is already in his fifties, and his eldest daughter is also in her twenties. If she graduates from university, she should also be of marriageable age. According to the customs of rural hometowns, marriage is a top priority.
It can be imagined how reluctant my cousin was to answer when asked about his eldest daughter's situation. When my cousin answered, he was vague, but unfortunately, the relatives in my hometown were very enthusiastic, and there were also many elders present. Finally, my cousin said that his eldest daughter went to study in the United States.
My relatives in my hometown all say that studying abroad in the United States is great. Not only can I learn, but I can also broaden my horizons. I am sure I will have a bright future like my cousin. cnimmigrantexpo.com​
However, there is no impenetrable wall in the world, and somehow it spread. Originally, the eldest daughter of my cousin's family didn't listen much to her family since she got into college. In college, she didn't prioritize her studies and started dating, even resorting to promiscuity. During my university years, I became pregnant. Therefore, in a fit of anger, her cousin sent her abroad.
For students like Tsinghua and Peking University, choosing to study abroad, regardless of the real reasons, at least they can wear the big hat of good grades and proactive pursuit of further education.
Students who are forced to study abroad out of necessity are not worthy of envy from outsiders. Leaving aside family factors, at least they did not do well in their studies in China, or it is difficult to find employment after graduation, which is why they have to study abroad again. www.cnimmigrantexpo.com